Why I Require a Deposit

Before you book a session with me, there is one thing you need to understand clearly: my time is not held without commitment.

I require a US$50 deposit to confirm every session. It is not a game, a test, or a way to make things difficult. It is a simple professional boundary that protects my time, my energy, and the work I put into giving a slave a proper experience.

A session does not begin only when you arrive at my door or when I walk into your hotel room. It begins much earlier. I reserve that time only for you. I plan around it. I prepare myself, choose my outfit, do my makeup, prepare the toys and equipment, and get myself into the right mindset for the type of session you requested. If it is an outcall, I also need to allow time to travel, often through Bangkok traffic, carrying what I need with me.

I do not rush these things. I do not treat a session like an appointment I can casually squeeze in between other plans. I put care into it because I expect the experience to feel real, focused, and worth your time and money.

Unfortunately, I have learned this boundary through experience.

Too many men have confirmed a session, said they were coming, then disappeared. Some do not reply until after the scheduled time. Some cancel when I am already dressed, prepared, and waiting. Some wait until I have travelled or turned away another serious client. Then they simply say, "Something came up," as if my own time did not matter.

Of course, I understand that real life happens. Emergencies happen. Work situations happen. Plans can change unexpectedly. I am not unreasonable, and I do not expect perfection from anyone. But being respectful means communicating as soon as you know there is a problem. It means understanding that when you reserve my time, you are asking me to make space for you and to say no to other opportunities.

That is exactly why the deposit exists.

The US$50 deposit confirms that you are serious. It tells me that you respect the booking, that you understand my time has value, and that you genuinely intend to show up. It also gives me basic protection if you choose to cancel at the last minute, do not show up, or disappear after I have already prepared.

If you arrive for your booked session, the deposit is simply part of your payment. It is not an extra fee. It is a confirmation of your place in my schedule.

But if you cancel too late, vanish, or fail to come, the deposit is not refundable. By then, I have already given you something valuable: a reserved part of my day, my preparation, and my energy. I cannot get that time back, and I cannot always replace the booking at the last minute.

I run my sessions professionally, with clear rules and mutual respect. I will always be honest about my rates, my boundaries, and what I offer. In return, I expect a slave to be straightforward, polite, and responsible with my time.

A submissive who truly understands service should understand this easily. Respect is not only about kneeling, using the right title, or saying the right words. Respect is shown through actions: being on time, communicating clearly, following booking rules, and honoring the arrangements you have made.

If a US$50 deposit feels unreasonable to you, then perhaps you are not ready to book with me. That is fine. There are many different people offering many different experiences. But I do not work with time-wasters, unreliable men, or anyone who believes a Mistress should prepare herself and hold her schedule for free.

My time, energy, and experience are valuable. I protect them because I have learned that I must.

Serious, respectful slaves will understand. Those are the only ones I wish to see.

Power is Power!

Mistress Tanya 💌